Value: Steadiness- July 2025
Third Week: Build confidence
When you go shopping, you often notice various items displayed with price tags attached. You understand that these prices include a profit margin, and the actual cost of producing the product is often much lower. However, when you genuinely need something, you are usually willing to pay the full price because its value enhances your life or work.
Now, consider your self-worth. If you have an inflated view of yourself, it's referred to as high self-esteem, while a diminished view is called low self-esteem. Both extremes are undesirable. Many people believe that high self-esteem fosters confidence, but it can sometimes lead to egotism and arrogance. True self-esteem is crucial for living with motivation. So, how can you develop a genuine sense of self-esteem? What is your real worth?
Recognize your areas of weakness
Thinking about your weaknesses can often lead to low self-esteem. You may feel shy and wish that no one notices or talks about your shortcomings, which can result in constant worry. However, closing your eyes doesn’t make the world disappear. Instead, take a moment to list the weaknesses you want to overcome and start working on them. Allow yourself the time you need to improve; it doesn’t have to happen overnight.
In the Mahabharata, there is a story about Ekalavya, a tribal boy who was unable to learn from Dronacharya due to his low birth. Despite this, he did not let it deter him. He created an image of Guru Drona and, with great reverence, taught himself archery over the years. Eventually, he even became skilled enough to challenge the skilful archer, Arjuna. He became worthy enough that Dronacharya himself came searching for him!
In the Ramayana, we encounter the tale of an uneducated tribal woman who, guided by her Guru, devotedly chanted the name of Sri Rama for many years. She, living alone in a small abode in the forest, never allowed her situation to overwhelm her. In response to her dedication, Sri Rama himself visited her to offer his blessings.
These and many such stories illustrate that it is indeed possible to overcome weaknesses by consistently working on them and seeking the right guidance. Take one at a time and work on it. You become increasingly aware of your worth.
Recognize your areas of strength
No one is born useless. A Sanskrit saying is: अमन्त्रमक्षरं नास्ति नास्ति मूलमनौषधम्। अयोग्यः पुरुषो नास्ति योजकस्तत्र दुर्लभः॥ This translates to: No letter is not a mantra, no plant is without medicinal value, and no person is inherently unworthy; however, finding someone who utilises these qualities well is rare! God has not created anything in this world that is worthless. Discovering your strengths boosts your confidence, and steadily enhancing them should be a joyful endeavour.
During my time as a student in the Vedanta course at Sandeepany, I was asked to teach a group of seekers who attended a month-long spiritual camp. When Pujya Gurudev visited to inaugurate the camp, I approached him for his blessings. As it was my first time taking on the role of a teacher, I felt hesitant. He looked into my eyes and said, "Go and share what you know. Speak not from the book; instead, express your own understanding of the subject, fearlessly!"
His words invigorated my spirit. From that moment on, I never doubted my ability to convey what I had learned to those interested in understanding it. His encouraging words continue to resonate in my mind and serve as a guiding light in my journey toward self-improvement.
