Saturday, September 13, 2025
Saturday, September 6, 2025
Value: Seva - September 2025
Consider viewing service as a way to express your love for God. Seva is about connecting with the world around you to facilitate your ability to serve. When you present a fruit to God, who do you thank or show gratitude to? Is it the shopkeeper who sold it to you, the wholesaler who supplied the shop, the farmer who cultivated the produce, the tree that bore it, or the Earth’s fertility, along with the sun and water?
Although we may feel independent, we are actually interdependent. No one can thrive without the support of many others. When we have the opportunity to serve, we should be grateful to all those who contribute to our lives, both known and unknown. True seva is expressing thanks to the Lord, who supports us through countless hands, feet, eyes, ears, mouths, and hearts.
Sunday, August 31, 2025
Value: Seva - September 2025
Sunday, August 24, 2025
Value: Mindfulness - August 2025
Fourth Week: Leave the mind
The Patanjali Yoga Sutras state, "योगः चित्तवृत्ति-निरोधः," which translates to "Restraining the mind is Yoga." The practice of yoga involves a disciplined approach to both the body and the mind. Restraining the mind means mastering it and curbing its habitual tendencies. Discipline requires consistent practice, and regularity is essential.
On the other hand, the path of wisdom focuses on clarity of thought and commitment to knowledge. Keeping the mind engaged in selfless actions reflects the path of action, while surrendering the mind to God embodies the path of devotion. Ultimately, restraining the mind through discipline represents the path of Yoga, and challenging the illusions of the mind illustrates the path of wisdom.
Reduce the thought flow
Sri Ramana Maharshi advises us to question the reality of the mind. According to him, this inquiry into the mind is the direct path to liberation. The bondage we experience is caused by the mind, and we can release ourselves from this bondage by realizing that it is ultimately false.
Pujya Gurudev illustrated this concept with the following story: In an ashram, the students were assigned by the Guru to take the cows to graze every day after the morning class. They diligently carried out this duty. One day, however, it rained heavily, so the students brought the cows to the shed and tied them securely before the day ended. The next morning, when they went to untie the cows to take them out for grazing, one cow that had not actually been tied the previous day refused to move, despite the student's efforts. Frustrated, he complained to the Guru, who instructed him to do the gesture of untying the cow. When he did so, the cow began to move.
To the surprised student, the Guru simply explained, "Every day, you tied the cow, and it has grown accustomed to seeing you untie it the following day. This is merely a mindless belief!"
We also believe that there is a mind, but ultimately, there is only Consciousness. The mind is an illusion. We often fail to recognize this when we continuously follow the flow of thoughts. Reducing the flow of thoughts is emphasized in Vedanta as a way to transcend the mind.
The thought "I am the body" arises shortly after you wake up from sleep and not before. This illusory thought is the root cause of all subsequent thoughts related to your relationships, responsibilities, and worries. If you start your day with the affirmation "I am Brahman," which has no ties to the material world, you can choose your next thought without feeling compelled. It is important to return to "I am Brahman" throughout the day. This will significantly reduce the number of thoughts.
Shift the attention from the object of the thought to the subject
Watch a leaf. Initially, the focus of your thought is the leaf as seen by your eyes. Now, shift your attention from the leaf to your eyes. Keep them open. This change in focus transfers your attention from the leaf to the eyes. Next, direct your attention towards your thought. At this point, the focus has shifted to the thought itself. There is no longer a leaf or watching eyes—only the thought: "I am." Remain in this state for as long as you can.
The thought "I am" will not give rise to another thought. If it does, return to the beginning until you arrive again at "I am." Maintaining a single awareness of "I am" is the path to transcending the mind. Initially, having an external object for support is important in your practice.
By shifting your focus from an external object to a thought, and then from that thought to "I am," you have renounced the illusory mind and arrived at the reality of "I am."
Saturday, August 16, 2025
Value: Mindfulness - August 2025
Third Week: Love the mind
There is only one true love in our lives—our Self. Generally, we love only that which brings us happiness. In the Brihadaranyaka Upanishad (2.4.5), the teacher Yajnavalkya says to his wife Maitreyi, "आत्मनस्तु कामाय सर्वं प्रियं भवति," which means "Everything is loved for the sake of the Self."
You love your daughter simply because she is 'your' daughter. This idea extends to all your relationships with people and things. Currently, our strong identification with the mind leads us to focus on 'me' and 'mine,' influencing our actions based on these thoughts. Our attention tends to follow where the mind finds happiness.
Mind is an expressed form of the Self
The Self is imperceptible and incomprehensible, even to the mind. Why is this so? Because the Self is the very foundation and cause of the mind. According to established logic, the cause cannot be objectified by the effect; it can only be recognized as its own source. Similarly, the non-dual Self expresses itself as the limited mind. For there cannot exist another independent sentient entity other than the Self.
The mind is a continuous flow of thoughts, where each thought represents a relationship between a subject and an object. In all these thoughts, the subject remains constant—it's the Self. The Kena Upanishad (2.4) states, "प्रतिबोधविदितं मतम्" which means, "The Self is known (as the awareness that illuminates) through every thought." When we are unaware of the Self, we mistakenly identify the subject as our notion of 'I' or ego. This confusion leads us to cherish the mind and everything that brings happiness to it. Although the objects of our love may change, the pursuit of happiness never truly ends..
Mind is the means to reach the proximity of the Self
Upon realizing that the mind is only an external expression of the Self, the wise declare, "मनसा-एवमिदमाप्तव्यम्" – it is by the mind alone that the Self can be reached. This process consists of two steps.
The first step is to purify the mind. All the values we discuss in this forum aim to make our minds pure and calm, allowing us to remain immune to distractions from the senses and our inherent tendencies (vasanas). This also requires complete devotion to the higher Self.
The second step is to comprehend the illusory nature of the mind, often referred to as the phantom Self. As Sri Ramana Maharshi advised, "When you question the reality of the mind alone, it will disappear." Just as a pot is merely a term for a specific shape of clay, the mind is just a limited expression of the Self, designed for practical, worldly purposes.
When we start loving the mind as the pure Self, we start recognizing it as pure Awareness, even while it busily transacts in the wakeful state.
Saturday, August 9, 2025
Value: Mindfulness - August 2025
Second Week: Keep the mind
It is well known that every relationship requires maintenance. Just like a house or a personal vehicle needs care and upkeep, our minds also need attention to stay sharp. Mindfulness is not just about preventing the mind from wandering; it's also about ensuring that it remains alert and accessible when we need it.
Reduce the noise of 'opinions'
Every TV channel presents strong opinions on economic, political, and social issues occurring around the world. Viewers often form their own opinions based on what they watch. This constant stream of opinions can overwhelm our minds, making it difficult to find peace and quiet. It's important to remember that we don't need to judge or form opinions about everything we see or hear. A simple question to ask yourself is: Do my opinions, or those of others, change the ongoing situation?
You may have noticed that traditional Indian music artists often begin their performances with a calm prayer before gradually increasing the intensity of the music. This initial moment of quietude is essential for tuning both their own minds and the minds of the audience. The same principle applies to us. When we are about to engage in any activity that requires our full attention, we should actively work to reduce the inner noise in our minds.
One Japanese surgeon has made it his regular practice to remain quiet for a few moments along with his fellow surgeons and nurses before every surgical operation. He noticed that he and others could mindfully engage in the surgery whenever he practised it. Why not try this when you pick up any important task that needs full attention?
Cut down the unhealthy habit of wool-gathering
The mind serves as a storehouse of energy, driving our senses to engage in various activities. When our senses become disengaged, the mind becomes more active. A mind that conserves its energy should focus on positive thinking or spiritual contemplation. However, if we fail to direct our thoughts properly, the mind may fall into the habit of daydreaming, also known as wool-gathering. Even more detrimental is the tendency to worry.
How can we overcome this unhealthy habit? First, recognize that thoughts can lead to more thoughts, whether they originate from your memory or external sources. Second, understand that you have the power to stop the momentum of these thoughts. Third, be cautious; using substances to block thoughts can lead to addiction. Lastly, avoid lethargy or excessive sleep when trying to reduce your thought flow.
One effective spiritual practice is japa or deep contemplation on verses from sacred texts, ideally under the guidance of a qualified teacher. Additionally, listening to the chanting of the Vedas or reciting Vedic mantras and stotrams can be very beneficial in overcoming both worry and the habit of daydreaming.
Sunday, August 3, 2025
Value: Mindfulness - August 2025
First Week: Find the mind
We often hear the phrase "never mind!" used when someone is unconcerned about a situation. However, many of us may not be aware of where our minds truly are. We are not referring to a state of swoon or unconsciousness; rather, it is the predicament where the mind is lost and never to be found.
Typically, teenagers are seen as preoccupied with video games and chat rooms, but adults are not exempt from this behavior either. When our minds are not present, how can we engage in any meaningful spiritual practice?
Find out where the mind gets trapped
To catch birds alive, a hunter uses a net. Similarly, our minds can become trapped on the internet! What is this trap? Our minds are overloaded with information, much of which is irrelevant to our personal growth. Children, in particular, are filled with information that they often repeat without fully processing or understanding it.
We are mind-full rather than mindful in our daily lives. While engaging in one task, we frequently allow ourselves to be distracted by multiple other tasks that demand our attention simultaneously. Many people experience FOMO (fear of missing out), even while on vacation. We walk, drive, and even sleep with our mobile phones in hand! The Upanishads warn us: "शब्दजालं महारण्यं चित्तभ्रमाणकारणम्" – The net of words (sounds) is a vast forest that causes the bewilderment of the mind.
Quietly observe where your mind is getting trapped. Every day, spend some time staying away from the regular routine of life, and see if you can remain free from being oppressed by the world around you.
Be alert about the negative influence
It is one thing to lose ourselves in the busyness of daily life, leaving no space for reflection and tranquility; it is quite another to allow negative thoughts and prejudiced views to cloud our minds. We must intentionally expose ourselves to positive influences to build resilience against negativity.
A well-known scientist was once asked if anyone had ever positively influenced him. He replied affirmatively, "Yes, my servant did!" He explained, "One winter, I was sitting near the heater and felt very warm. I called my servant to lower the heat, but he smiled and said, 'Instead of asking me to reduce the heat, why don't you move your chair a little farther away from the heater? That would solve the problem!' He taught me an invaluable lesson: whenever you feel deprived of something in life, mentally distance yourself from it, and you will feel relieved immediately!"
Even if you cannot avoid the company of those who have only negative thoughts and opinions, try to mentally distance yourself, like the way Lord Shiva drank the poison: he neither swallowed to pollute Himself, nor did He threw up to endanger others!
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